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2016-07-17

Express your honest emotion then and there

Express your honest emotion then and there

Good morning.

“I feel the happiest today, too.”
“I receive a lot of selfless love from the cosmos.”
Reciting these heavenly words, attract miracle-happiness to you.(〃⌒ー⌒〃)ゞ

I always feel grateful for your caring.
So, Most of us are worrying about money, human relationships, and health.

Let’s talk about human relationships today.
Most of the people, who have trouble getting along with others, do not express their honest emotion to them, or They express their own emotion unilaterally without trying to understand others’ inner nature and honest emotions.

Your mere misunderstanding of their true intentions makes you angry at others.
In my counselings, the former cases are more often seen than the latter.(o^・^o)

That is, most people do not express their emotion.
In most cases, people think that “I do not want to make others upset or to worry them.”
“I should restrain myself.” And in addition to that, “It’s no use whatever I may tell them, so I give up telling my emotions to them,” you might say to yourself.

But while privately keeping your emotion in mind without saying it to others, negative emotions continue to steadily pile up deep in your mind.
Eventually you will begin to think that
“I would not like to meet others.”
“I do not like that person. I hate him.”
Finally, the bottled-up emotions burst up.
(>_<)
This worst situation mainly comes from the relationship with their mother (or sometimes with father).(*´∇`*)

The words with which they were talked by their mother have an influence on them.
Their mother would not listen to their story.
Their mother denied them.
Their mother did not love them unconditionally.
How Their mother’s own life to be is one of the factors for which they are at strife.
(>_<)(o^・^o)

The relationship with mother is very important.(*≧∀≦*)
In order to solve this problem.
First of all,
The key word is “reconciliation between you” and “your parents and understanding for your parents.” (I recommend that you take “Unborn Child Healing”, “Ancestor Healing”,
and “Parent-child Relation Healing”.)

Next, getting away from your thoughts, such as “I do not want to trouble others.” or “I do not want to have others put in unpleasant situation.”
“It is no use telling others.”
Then, let’s respect others, and If you can express your honest feeling.
Your relationship with others will become smooth and non-stressed.

Even if the others cannot understand your emotion as soon as you want, what you told them is lingering in their ears.
Especially, Say “no” about what you do not like.
Have a enough courage to refuse what you will be able to do.
Even if others cannot understand you soon, it’s OK. You only have to keep
expressing your emotions.

You only have to tell others the reason you want to refuse and the
process with which you began to think so.
And if you begin to tell what you think, the others will try to tell you anything, too.
Then, let’s express your feeling firmly however the other may react.

In this case, It is important for us to express not your negative feeling, but your
honest feeling, “real motive” (the truth that you feels inside).
Moreover, it is also important to say your honest feeling then and there.
If you tell your feeling after a while, your expression do not appeal to their hearts at all.

Unless you do not express what you really thinks, neither does the other.
Under such a situation both negative emotions only collide with each other
People often express not their honest emotion, but differently their feelings, instead.

For example,
Supposing the child said to his mother “I do not like you because you are such and such.”
But his words do not come from his true emotion.(o^・^o)(>_<)
His true emotion is that “I want to be admitted by my mother. I want
to be treated gently by my mother. I want to be loved by my mother. I
feel sad because my mother does not seem to love me.”

This means that we must understand the implication of his words behind them.
Not telling their honest emotion means that they are too attentive to others and reluctant to say their feeling.
Or, it means that they express their negative feeling by means of a way which is likened to a “breaking ball”.

If you are at a loss when the other do not understand you at all, please come to me for help.
I recommend that you take “Hiromi Special Session” which is combined
with healing and helps you to find out your true essence with removing your negative feelings.(*≧∀≦*)

Let’s value yourself highly, at first.(*´∇`*)

Let’s express yourself, valuing your honest emotion.(〃⌒ー⌒〃)ゞ

And, I am sure that you will value other’s emotion, too.(*´∇`*)(*≧∀≦*)(o^・^o)

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