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2017-08-28

Attitude to be a good listener

【Lucky Happy Navigation for Happiness from Golden Celeb】
Good Morning.
“I will be a person with big ears and a small mouth”
“I will be a good listener”
Say these words today to attract more and more happiness.
Just as you go up the stairs, the more you participate in seminars everything will shift upward even more.
Now let’s listen to people’s stories. It is the opposite message as usual.
Many Japanese people are not telling their own feelings(it doesn’t mean they are talkative)So I am telling you to tell your own feelings.
But if you look from another point of view, that is mutual.
Actually, there are many hidden messages from your neighbors, or the speaker’s unspoken words of heart.
So I will introduce the attitude to be a good listener!!
You should look at the speaker’s eyes, nod emphatically, don’t break in and listen carefully.
Gradually you will be one with the speaker. You will understand what they really wanted to say. You will realize the things you didn’t know.
If you concentrate and try to understand, not only the words itself but also you will realize the true essence. You will be able to see them. You should keep concentrating to come to this condition.
People who nod emphatically at my seminar has better understanding compared to other listeners.
If this proceeds…
It will be the person of saint, a “sage”
Even if you think you understood the speaker very well! the maximum is 40%
60% is not understood.
So you cannot fully understand. So you also need modesty.
If you are in a position to learn from someone, then to consider that you have completely understood is your enemy.
You should abandon your insolence and selfishness. And to abandon your values and experiences. To be empty once.
If you abandon your selfishness.
Then you will master a bit of the truth.
The bounds of a person is unknown. That is why if you can come a little closer, it is a big progress. Your energy will expand.
And your capacity will be even more larger. This capacity is truely the depth of human.
This capacity and depth is effecting your fortune. And also you will be able to give good influence to many other people.
Today let’s widen your capacity a little bit.
That is to
“listen to the speaker seriously”
This is the most shortest route.
“Believe in yourself more than anyone. But, listen to others in great attention. It is some kind of metaphor”
〜from Metaphor〜

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