True Love is Unlimited

True Love is Unlimited

Good morning!

“I love people under any condition.”
“I appreciate everything.”
Let’s go into the spiral of happiness with these heavenly words.

So, in some therapies,I hear parents of grown-ups saying,
“They are out of control – I just don’t get them.”
or
“They never know how wonderfully they are being treated! Why?”

Yes, this is very hard.
They don’t know what is in their children’s mind…
They don’t know what their children are talking about…
I understand that is so hard.

But if they sound like – “complete nonsense”,
then you are in the last stage. LOL
No, this is not funny at all.

Last stage of what…?

That of love – this means, “you don’t love” your children at all.
You are not truly into them, so that you cannot read between the lines, where the true meanings of the words are.
Definitely, your children don’t feel that you love them.

You might ask me like;
“Just wonder why, when I care for them a lot?”
Or “while I am so serious about giving them everything I have, wearing my fingers to the bone…?”

Well, I’m afraid, it is not love.
It is just a selfish assumption – your ego.

You know you hate someone forcing it to you.

So, if you find your children saying “things don’t make any sense,”
then you must listen to “what’s in their mind.”
If you only focus on their words, you cannot see “what they truly mean.”
So what is it…?
“They want you to love them!!”

Did you hear that?
More exactly, they “want you to love just the way you are, and to accept them.”

That is what they desire for.
Probably, you love them in certain conditions because you were raised up in that way, such as;

You praise them only when they behave themselves.
You love them only when they listen to you.
You love them only when they do what you expect them to.

In this way, you try to force them to be like the way you expect to be.
And you even try to satisfy yourself by doing so.

No matter how much you give them, your children will never feel that you love them.

Because you are just forcing your ego onto them.

Then what do you do…

Love them just the way they are.
Care for what they feel like.
Listen to what they tell you.
Even if what they hate, what they are happy with, or what they want to do are all against your wishes, just accept them.

I am sure they will know the meanings of true love.

“Selfless love” is “true love.”

That is, with no expectations of return.
They is how people feel that they are loved by others.

Then everything is going to be sorted.

If you are feeling hard,
this is because you have not ever been unlimitedly loved.
So you don’t have to blame yourself.
I recommend you to take the Human Relationship Healing Therapy between your parents.

You still have hope.
Let’s take a closer look at unlimited love, the true love.