The attitude toward listening to others’ talks.

Good morning.
Today, say
I want to have big ears and a small mouth.
I do listen carefully to others.

And attracts happiness more and more.
Whenever I have a seminar, everything shifts higher as if it were going up the stairs.
Then, listen to others’ talks.
This is a message in a way that is counter to a usual one.

Most Japanese people cannot express their own feelings, so I recommend that you talk your own honest feelings.  (That does not mean that they are talkative.)
But, when you looked at it from a different angle, I can say that we are even. The truth is that in the people’s mind what their heart tell them to say and a variety of messages are hidden, and only you can’t understand it.

The attitude toward listening to others is to make an eye contact with others, giving a nod and to listen to others carefully without cutting in.
And, you will come together with others.
You will see what others want to say and you will understand it well. You will come to see what you cannot understand.

When you try to get centered on others’ talk in order to understand it, you will see not only what are expressed by words but also essences hidden in the depth. Try to focus on others enough to understand hidden essences.
In the seminar, those who are listening to my talk, giving a nod, can absorb a lot of things from the seminar.

If you can keep focusing others’ talk much more, you will be a saint.
Even so, and even if you thought that I could understand others’ talk well, you understand only 40 % in the seminar.
You do not understand 60% of all.
We also need humility, because we cannot understand all of what others are saying.
If you are in the position which you learn something from others, the act of not clearly understanding will be the enemy.

Getting rid of selfishness and the sense of values and experiences you have had so far are important,and try to understand others after making your mind empty.
If you get rid of selfishness, you can realize others’ intentions a little.
That is, it is too difficult for us to understand what are in the others’ mental territory.

Therefore, if you give some consideration to the others’ feelings, I can say that you have a big advance.
Your energy is also expanding.
And, you will also be growing to be big enough.

Deepness as a man depend upon whether you are a big enough man or not.
Your broad-mindedness and deepness determine your fortune, and you will be a man who can give good effects on a lot of people.

Today, try to become a little bigger enough.
To do so, it may be the shortest way to “carefully listen to others.”

“You should believe yourself more than anyone else.  But carefully listen to others. It is anyhow a metaphor to anything.
From “metaphor.
” Written by Summon-flare
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