Let Them Go to Let Yourself Go

Let Them Go to Let Yourself Go

Good morning!

Say
“I accept myself. I accept others too.”
“I am so satisfied with everything!”
And you will see miracles and happiness walking to your way!

Today’s talking point: “Real you”
I have been telling you that you had better be yourself as often as you can.
When I tell someone to release what you always wanted to say, some of them reply to me like “I did, but it didn’t go well.”
In that case, it won’t be good enough if you JUST say what you want without a consideration.
It depends on who you said that, though; you would not have any problem if they were very tolerant.

Of course, expressing your feelings itself is a great thing.
It is an amazing improvement.

But the problem is how you tell them.
What is going to happen after you offend or deny someone and you just insist on your point?

They probably would never open their mind to you.
Or they would not feel like caring about you.
Imagine what you would feel like if you were them.
It should be quite unpleasant.

Now, what do we do…?
“Consider someone’s standpoint.”
It is necessary especially when you want someone to understand you.

The real “modesty” is trying to accept each other.
It does not work while you are only being too stubborn and while you are only being too patient.
Struggle to get into someone who is against you and do your best to understand them.

Then they would feel satisfied.
(You really need to understand them first, at least a little bit.)
And they will be relaxed.
That is when they start listening to you.

Consider someone’s position.
If you try hard, people will trust you and appreciate it.
Besides, you will be the happiest person of all.
It is always important to pay attention to others.
You love yourself and you can share your love with people.
So that you can care for yourself as much as you do for others!!
Then sure you are running into more and more happiness!

(FYI, the essential problem of human relationship is coming from that of you and your parents. This is where I would like to recommend The Human-Relationship Healing.)