Don`t be patient, let out your true feelings little by little

Don`t be patient, let out your true feelings little by little

Good Morning.
Let’s relax and say
“I am so happy～”
“Thank you”
Let’s appreciate what you have now and fulfill satisfaction and happiness.

From my experiences of having human relation healing, I found out this fact.
If you want to build up a happy human relationship.
If you do 〇〇, then it will make the relationship worse！
I talked about it in the video.
“〇〇 is what makes human relationship worse”
That is surprisingly！”Patience”

You may think
If I be patient than I won`t have to argue.
They won`t listen so I will be patient and won`t say anything.
I will be fine, this much I can still be patient.
You keep ignoring your true feelings and be patient.
You may think just a little paience is fine however… when small things pile up, and accumulate it will someday explode！
And at that point you cannot recover.
Even if it is just a small negative feeling, it is true that you feel that way.

So it is important that you tell to them
little by little.
You will feel a lot better if you tell them about how you feel.
Even if nothing changed, reality when you didn’t tell and when you did tell, it would make a big difference.

And １other thing.
If you try to fulfill someone’s expectations, and you try very hard then you will feel stressful and become unhappy.
You try not to disappoint them so you act as their ideal person.
Then you will not be able to live as your true self. You can’t be confident being yourself.
You may feel that your true self is not enough.

It is all right being just the way you are～
Traits that you consider as weak points or have complex are not always the same for others.
People might say really? that’s no problem～ and they won’t care that much.
“To tell the truth, I am 〇〇”
Even if you confess your major concerns, people might unexpectedly sympathize or cooperate and they would accept just the way you are.

If you stop tring to fulfill someone’s expectations, or if you stop being patient and try to make effort, you will be able to love your true self gradually.
It is truely wonderful to love yourself～

That person would look brilliant from other people…
If they are single, they may have a good encounter～
People who try to fulfill their parent’s expectations, their parents wanted to raise their children to be perfect and they expect them to be just the way they want.

Their parents tend to make a mistake that it is “love”. However actually this happens when they are too dependent on their children.
(This is the affect from ancertor)
I was able to find out about this fact after having many sessions of human relationship healing.
(If you are curious, I recommend you have human relation healing with your parents)
Live as yourself.

From now on, let’s start living your own way of life.
If you want to depend  someone, then you should depend them. It is fine to let out your negative feelings and to say no, please stop it. You can always ask for help.
If you do this, then your relationship will change. You might be lonely for the moment, but this is the proof  for going up to the next stage.
If you don’t go through this, then you cannot truely be “independent”.
Moreover, it is impossible to “contribute” to others.

Today let’s shine lively as the way you really are and go into the spiral of happiness～ from heart！