When parent-child relation has been healed, all the human relationships will become easier while you’re living with people.

When parent-child relation has been healed, all the human relationships will become easier while you’re living with people.

Good morning.

“I enjoy my life.” “I was born to be happy.
” Say these heavenly words, and attract your happiness.

“To heal parent‐child relationship.
” Then, we have been inevitably influenced by our parents since our childhood. Even if you have lived away from your parents since your childhood, there will be the relationship that you live away from your parents.
We are input from your parents without realizing it.
A child cannot escape from his parents’ influence.
A Child have no choice but accept his parents’ influence, whether it is good or bad.
The input from our parents is stronger than you expect, and the input determine our all personal relationship.
This is the truth I realize by offering counseling session to my tens of thousands of clients.

Your all personal relationships with others clearly reflect your relationship with your parents.
When you suffer from the relationships, such as the relationship with your boss at workplace, the relationship with your partner, and the relationship with your friends, you need healing the relationship with your parents. And, when you determine something about yourself, taking it the wrong way as his desire, and the desire that he is recognized by parents underlying in the mind, and misunderstanding it as a dream, it would fall into very difficult situations whose process you cannot enjoy and you suffer from psychological strains.
Even if you achieve your dream, you cannot get fulfilled.

That is why, The desire to be admitted by others comes from your awareness of others. This situation means that you put more weight on others than on yourself. The desire to be admitted by others in the state of in the mind being hollowed out can be considered as “a hungry ghost,” which means low vibration from the view of Buddhism. That is a stage of devouring eagerly. In this situation, you will be unsatisfied forever, and you become more and more uncomfortable. But all you have to do is just admit yourself.

Moreover, if you have your child, you will do same behavior for your child just as your parents did for you. (It will be fine, if your parents have done good things for you.)

Even if you do not want to be like your parents, you will do same things just like your parents without thinking.
Even if those who says, “I forgive my parents really consciously,” what is the subconscious mind is impressed as a strong grief, and all of a sudden, becomes apparent in an action pattern.
This is inscribed in the unconsciousness and it becomes apparent in your action.

For example, you have not been praised or you have not been taken as you are. You have grown up so as not to hurt your minds.
As a child, you have shown your parents lots of love. If you experienced these cases in your childhood, when you become an adult, you are much more apt to be plagued by depression.
But if you are aware of it, as it becomes apparent, the situation will go along on the right track.

Especially, for a man of good character it is hard to become apparent, so he says, “I respect my parents.”
If you are depressed, heal yourself because you are only tired because you have shown too much love to your parents.
Rest at ease and remember that you have given lots of love to your parents.
You need not have done so. You should have loved them just the way you love them.

If your child remains reclusive at home, you, his mother or father, need to be healed because it came from the chains of the fate.
It is OK if you do not expect too much of your children and admit your children as they are.
This means at the same time that you accept yourself as you are.

If you have difficulty to do so, taking human relationship healing between you and your parents will be helpful for you.
Your children also need taking human relationship healing.
You will be able to value your own honest feeling.
You will not be influenced by others’ opinions.
You will become a person of principle. Today, value your heart and enjoy everything on your own terms.