Accept your own feelings

Accept your own feelings

Good Morning.

“I will accept myself”
“I will live happily”
Say these words to go into the spiral of happiness.

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【Public session】
This is about what you talked about in the mail magazine. It is difficult for me to feel “Thankful for giving birth” to my parents.
To my daughter, I truely feel “Thankful for  being born” from heart.
I feel that I don’t necessary have to think “Thankful for giving birth” to my parents.

Now I accept my feelings that it is difficult for me to think so.
Will I ever be able to think so in the future?
Or not?
Will I be more mature if I could?

Founder Ms.Hiromi saids “If you can be absolutely thankful for your life, you will be able to truely feel “Thankful for giving birth” to your parents”
From this phrase, it means that I am not truely thankful for my life.

I have been asking myself “Why was I ever born?”
I still have this feeling, not a few left in my heart.
Probably I am not being able to feel the pleasure of being born.

How should I confront myself?
Would I be able to understand, or change by myself if I had confronted properly?
I would appreciate if  you could advise me. With kind regards.

【Answer from Golden Celeb】
Thank you for sharing.
Yes, first you can truely feel “Thankful for being born” from heart to your child.
That is wonderful.
Your child is very fortunate.
Now, if you cannot be thankful to your parents that is fine. You don’t have to.

Generally, you may think how coldhearted you are.
However if you don’t have that feeling, you cannot be thankful even if you try.
You cannot compel yourself to think so.
Also, you should not blame yourself for feeling that way.

As I have talked before, you can not be thankful if you had been abused from your parents from your childhood.
You will never be able to thank them even if you try.
It is impossible even if you were told that it is an admonition and punishment from your previous life.

But for example, what if your parents were to apologize to you…
“I apologize for what  I have done to you. I had made you tolerate for a long time.
I said cruel things to you. Your mom(dad) was too immature.”

What if they apologized for what they did in your childhood from the bottom of their hearts?
Even though, you may not be satisfied and won’t be able to accept them.
Your parents had taken advantage of you.

But humans are immature. Including myself we are immature.
Your parents had suffered the same way. Restricted by the wedge of destiny that was inevitable.

If you try to look from a high point of view and understand this fact. If you were to be broad hearted to accept them, then it will resolve the fears inside you.
You don’t have to compel yourself to feel that way.

Be honest to your true feelings. Accept yourself even if you cannot think so.
You don’t have to change your feelings.
You have to accept your true feelings.

First you have to admit your own feelings.
It is natural for you to feel that way.

I recommend you to have human relation special healing.
You will be able to accept your parents by taking steps to your bright future.

Let’s live your life feeling “How wonderful I am！”
Instead of focusing on your parents, you will be able to change from there.